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Bondage (BDSM)
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Bondage is the practice of consentually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation. Rope, cuffs, bondage tape, self-adhering bandage, or other restraints may be used for this purpose, Bondage itself does not necessarily imply sadomasochism. Bondage may be used as an end into itself, as in the case of rope bondage and it may also be used as a part of sex or in conjunction with other BDSM activities. The letter B in the acronym BDSM comes from the word bondage, Sexuality and erotica are an important aspect in bondage, but are often not the end in itself. Aesthetics also plays an important role in bondage, a common reason for the active partner to tie up their partner is so both may gain pleasure from the restrained partners submission and the feeling of the temporary transfer of control and power. For sadomasochistic people, bondage is used as a means to an end. However, bondage can also be used for its own sake, many couples incorporate bondage into their sex lives, often sporadically but sometimes more regularly, and find sexual bondage to be relationship-affirming. This sometimes takes the form of a sex game or sexual fantasy enactment, bedroom bondage games are commonly used as a form of foreplay. They require and imply a level of trust and a surrender of control by the restrained to the active partner, the restrained partner surrenders control to the other partner. This surrender of control happens voluntarily and under mutual understanding and consent, the main feature of sexual bondage is that it renders the restrained person vulnerable to a variety of sex acts. The restrained partner is dependent for their sexual satisfaction on the actions of their partner, there are many reasons why people allow themselves to be bound. Bondage can be simple to apply, enabling improvisation using household items. Bedroom bondage is usually mild bondage, with one partner voluntarily being put into restraints by being tied up or handcuffed, blindfolds are a common part of bedroom play. The restrained partner is then typically sexually stimulated by masturbation, fingering, oral sex, Bondage can also be used for purposes other than sexual foreplay. For example, it may be used in erotic tickling or for sexual teasing, either way, the partners are usually playing out bondage games to act out their sexual fantasies. In 1995, psychologists Kurt Ernulf and Sune Innala from Sweden published an analysis based on answers from members of the bondage-oriented Usenet group alt. sex. bondage, most of the answers were from men. In 71% of the answers the active role in bondage was played by men, in 11% by heterosexual women. 29% of the men, 89% of the heterosexual women
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Roleplaying
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Role-playing refers to the changing of ones behaviour to assume a role, either unconsciously to fill a social role, or consciously to act out an adopted role. Many children participate in a form of role-playing known as make believe, wherein they adopt certain roles such as doctor, sometimes make believe adopts an oppositional nature, resulting in games such as cops and robbers. Historical re-enactment has been practiced by adults for millennia, within the 20th century historical re-enactment has often been pursued as a hobby. Improvisational theatre dates back to the Commedia dellArte tradition of the 16th century, modern improvisational theatre began in the classroom with the theatre games of Viola Spolin and Keith Johnstone in the 1950s. Viola Spolin, who was one of the founders the famous comedy troupe Second City, insisted that her exercises were games, and that they involved role-playing as early as 1946. She accurately judged role-playing in the theatre as rehearsal and actor training, or the playing of the role of actor versus theatre roles, a role-playing game is a game in which the participants assume the roles of characters and collaboratively create stories. Participants determine the actions of their characters based on their characterisation, within the rules, they may improvise freely, their choices shape the direction and outcome of the games. Message boards such as ProBoards and InvisionFree are popularly used for role-playing, often on forum-based roleplays, rules, and standards are set up, such as a minimum word count, character applications, and plotting boards to increase complexity and depth of story. There are different genres of which one can choose while role-playing, including, but not limited to, fantasy, modern, medieval, steam punk, and historical. Role-playing may also refer to training where people rehearse situations in preparation for a future performance. The most common examples are occupational training role-plays, educational role-play exercises, one of the first uses of computers was to simulate real-world conditions for participants role-playing the flying of aircraft. Flight simulators used computers to solve the equations of flight and train future pilots, the army began full-time role-playing simulations with soldiers using computers both within full scale training exercises and for training in numerous specific tasks under wartime conditions. Examples include weapon firing, vehicle simulators, and control station mock-ups and this technique of assigning and taking roles in psychological research has a long history. It has been used in the classic social psychological experiments by Kurt Lewin, Stanley Milgram. Herbert Kelman suggested that role-playing might be the most promising source of research methods alternative to using deception
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Foreplay
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In human sexual behavior, foreplay is a set of emotionally and physically intimate acts between two or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire for sexual activity. Either or any of the partners may indicate sexual interest to initiate foreplay. Foreplay stimulates both partners sexuality, lowers inhibitions and increases emotional intimacy between partners, and implies a level of confidence and trust between the partners. In animal sexual behavior, the equivalent is sometimes termed precoital activity. Sexual desire is an aspect of a sexuality, which varies from one person to another. A person who desires sexual activity with another person can provoke sexual arousal in the person, there are many potential stimuli, both physical, and/or mental which can cause a person to become sexually aroused, and which stimuli are invoked will depend on circumstances at a particular time. On the other hand, there are things which act as turn-offs. The response to an indication of sexual interest may be inhibited by issues of sexual morality, foreplay can begin with one person indicating in some manner to another person a desire to engage in sexual activity with that other person. Any act that creates and enhances sexual desire, interest, stimulation or arousal in a partner may constitute foreplay. An indication of sexual desire can be through physical intimacy, such as kissing, touching, embracing or nibbling the partner, mental engagement can also create sexual interest, such as flirting, talking, whispering or teasing. It may, for example, be a gesture that indicates sexual availability. The manual or oral touching of a zone may indicate sexual interest, as does an intimate kiss on the mouth, breasts, stomach, buttocks, back. A passionate or French kiss commonly indicates sexual interest, as does any removal of a partners clothing, verbally, foreplay may include compliments, subtle comments with double entendre, and intimate conversations. Foreplay commences when the other partner indicates reciprocal sexual interest, depending on the context, the non-objection to a partners advances may indicate that the sexual interest is reciprocated, as may a response to a kiss or hug. The non-objection to the touching of a zone, or the taking off of an item of clothing may indicate reciprocated sexual interest. Also, the partner may indicate reciprocal interest by engaging in intimate behaviour of their own. There are situations which act as turn-offs or which can affect the romantic or erotic moment that may have been created, turn-offs can range from things like bad breath, body odor, excessive noise or a reference to an ex-partner. A persons sexual inhibition can also impact on creation or maintenance of sexual interest, some people feel uncomfortable with acts such as French kissing, or the possibility of someone intruding, or nudity, besides other situations
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Internet
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The Internet is the global system of interconnected computer networks that use the Internet protocol suite to link devices worldwide. The origins of the Internet date back to research commissioned by the United States federal government in the 1960s to build robust, the primary precursor network, the ARPANET, initially served as a backbone for interconnection of regional academic and military networks in the 1980s. Although the Internet was widely used by academia since the 1980s, Internet use grew rapidly in the West from the mid-1990s and from the late 1990s in the developing world. In the two decades since then, Internet use has grown 100-times, measured for the period of one year, newspaper, book, and other print publishing are adapting to website technology, or are reshaped into blogging, web feeds and online news aggregators. The entertainment industry was initially the fastest growing segment on the Internet, the Internet has enabled and accelerated new forms of personal interactions through instant messaging, Internet forums, and social networking. Business-to-business and financial services on the Internet affect supply chains across entire industries, the Internet has no centralized governance in either technological implementation or policies for access and usage, each constituent network sets its own policies. The term Internet, when used to refer to the global system of interconnected Internet Protocol networks, is a proper noun. In common use and the media, it is not capitalized. Some guides specify that the word should be capitalized when used as a noun, the Internet is also often referred to as the Net, as a short form of network. Historically, as early as 1849, the word internetted was used uncapitalized as an adjective, the designers of early computer networks used internet both as a noun and as a verb in shorthand form of internetwork or internetworking, meaning interconnecting computer networks. The terms Internet and World Wide Web are often used interchangeably in everyday speech, however, the World Wide Web or the Web is only one of a large number of Internet services. The Web is a collection of interconnected documents and other web resources, linked by hyperlinks, the term Interweb is a portmanteau of Internet and World Wide Web typically used sarcastically to parody a technically unsavvy user. The ARPANET project led to the development of protocols for internetworking, the third site was the Culler-Fried Interactive Mathematics Center at the University of California, Santa Barbara, followed by the University of Utah Graphics Department. In an early sign of growth, fifteen sites were connected to the young ARPANET by the end of 1971. These early years were documented in the 1972 film Computer Networks, early international collaborations on the ARPANET were rare. European developers were concerned with developing the X.25 networks, in December 1974, RFC675, by Vinton Cerf, Yogen Dalal, and Carl Sunshine, used the term internet as a shorthand for internetworking and later RFCs repeated this use. Access to the ARPANET was expanded in 1981 when the National Science Foundation funded the Computer Science Network, in 1982, the Internet Protocol Suite was standardized, which permitted worldwide proliferation of interconnected networks.5 Mbit/s and 45 Mbit/s. Commercial Internet service providers emerged in the late 1980s and early 1990s, the ARPANET was decommissioned in 1990
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Cybersex
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Cybersex often includes real life masturbation. The quality of a cybersex encounter typically depends upon the abilities to evoke a vivid. Imagination and suspension of disbelief are also critically important, in some contexts cybersex is enhanced by the use of a webcam to transmit real-time video of the partners. Wanna cam. or a request for C2C/C4C, cybersex is commonly performed in Internet chat rooms and on instant messaging systems. It can also be performed using webcams, voice chat systems like Skype, the exact definition of cybersex—specifically, whether real-life masturbation must be taking place for the online sex act to count as cybersex—is up for debate. It is also frequent in online role-playing games, such as MUDs and MMORPGs. Some online social games like Red Light Center are dedicated to cybersex and these online games are often called AMMORPGs. Cybersex may also be accomplished through the use of avatars in a software environment. It is often called mudsex or netsex in MUDs, in TinyMUD variants, particularly MUCKs, the term TinySex is very common. There are a number of popular, commercial websites that allow people to openly masturbate on camera while others watch them. Using similar sites, couples can also perform on camera for the enjoyment of others, cybersex differs from phone sex in that it offers a greater degree of anonymity and allows participants to meet partners more easily. A good deal of cybersex takes place between partners who have just met online, in online worlds like Second Life and via webcam-focused chat services, however, Internet sex workers engage in cybersex in exchange for both virtual and real-life currency. Cybersex can be utilised to write co-written original fiction and fanfiction by role-playing in third person and it can also be used to gain experience for solo writers who want to write more realistic sex scenes, by exchanging ideas like sex position. Alternatively, it can be considered a form of sexual roleplay that allows the participants to experience unusual sexual sensations, amongst serious roleplayers, cybering may occur as part of a larger plot–the characters involved may be lovers or spouses. Due to this difference, such roleplayers typically prefer the term erotic roleplay rather than cybersex to describe it, often these personas develop complex past histories for their characters to make the fantasy/roleplay even more life like, thus the evolution of the term real cybering. Additionally, people with long-term ailments can engage in cybersex as a way to achieve sexual gratification without putting their partners at risk. Cybersex allows real-life partners who are separated to continue to be sexually intimate. In geographically separated relationships, it can function to sustain the sexual dimension of a relationship in which the partners see each other only infrequently face to face
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Dominance and submission
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Dominance and submission is a set of behaviors, customs, and rituals involving the submission of one person to another in an erotic episode or lifestyle. Physical contact is not necessary, and D/s can be conducted anonymously over the telephone, email, in other cases, it can be intensely physical, sometimes crossing into sadomasochism. In D/s, both parties take pleasure or erotic enjoyment from either dominating or being dominated and those who take the superior position are called dominants—Doms or Dommes —while those who take the subordinate position are called submissives—or subs. A switch is an individual who plays either role, two switches together may negotiate and exchange roles several times in a session. Dominatrix is a term reserved for a female professional dominant who dominates others for pay. Note, it is common for writers to capitalise the D in Dominant, many extend this to His/Hers, Him/Her, He/She, etc. to make it clear when they are referring to a Dominant. The inner conflict and surrender connected with dominance and submission are enduring themes in human culture, a 1985 study suggests that only about 30 percent of participants in BDSM activities are females. A safeword is usually given to the partner to prevent the dominant from overstepping physical and emotional boundaries. The safeword is especially important when engaging in verbal humiliation or playing mind-games, if an emotional boundary is breached and the safeword spoken, the dominant should cease all play immediately and discuss the emotional breach with the submissive in a tender and understanding manner. Negotiating limits in advance is also an important element in a D/s relationship and it is important to note that for a safe, sane, and consensual environment to be maintained, all participants should have a safeword of which the other is aware, this includes the Dominant partner. This includes cases where the dominant may feel things have gone too far and is uncomfortable continuing, as with any other participant, the dominants safeword call should herald the stopping of all play and the start of a recuperative discussion between the participants. D/s may be ritualized or freeform and it is usually a negotiated lifestyle, with people discussing their wishes, limits, and needs in order to find commonality. A D/s relationship may be sexual or non-sexual, long- or short-term, most adherents search for the essential intensity, trust, and intimacy that are required to make any deep relationship possible. D/s participants often refer to their activity as play, with a play session being called a scene. In addition to dominant and submissive, a switch is a person who can take either role, a scene between two switches can involve trading off the dominant and submissive roles, possibly several times. In contrast, the top and bottom refer to the active and passive roles. In a given scene, there is no requirement that the dominant also be the top, or that the submissive be the bottom, the term vanilla refers to normative sex and relationships, the vanilla world being mainstream society outside of the BDSM subculture. The term comes from vanilla ice cream being considered the default flavor, Some people in the D/s world capitalize words and names that refer to dominants, and do not capitalize those that refer to submissives, hence the capitalization of D/s, others do not
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BDSM
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BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. The term BDSM is first recorded in a Usenet posting from 1991, and is interpreted as a combination of the abbreviations B/D, D/s, BDSM is now used as a catch-all phrase covering a wide range of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. The terms submissive and dominant are often used to distinguish these roles, the terms top and bottom are also used, the top is the instigator of an action while the bottom is the receiver of the action. The abbreviations sub and dom are frequently used instead of submissive, sometimes the female-specific term domme is used to describe a dominant woman, instead of the gender-neutral term dom, both terms are pronounced the same. Individuals who can change between top/dominant and bottom/submissive roles—whether from relationship to relationship or within a given relationship—are known as switches, the precise definition of roles and self-identification is a common subject of debate within the community. BDSM is a term for certain kinds of erotic behavior between consenting adults. There are distinct subcultures under this umbrella term, terminology for roles varies widely among the subcultures. Top and dominant are widely used for partner in the relationship or activity who are, respectively. Bottom and submissive are widely used for partner in the relationship or activity who are, respectively. BDSM actions can take place during a specific period of time agreed to by both parties, referred to as play, a scene, or a session. Participants usually derive pleasure from this, even many of the practices—such as inflicting pain or humiliation or being restrained—would be unpleasant under other circumstances. Explicit sexual activity, such as penetration, may occur within a session. Such explicit sexual interaction is, for reasons, seen only rarely in public play spaces. Whether it is a public playspace—ranging from a party at an established community dungeon to a play zone at a nightclub or social event—the parameters of allowance can vary. Some have a policy of panties/nipple tape for women and some allow full nudity with explicit sexual interaction allowed, the fundamental principles for the exercise of BDSM require that it should be performed with the informed consent of all involved parties. It is mutual consent that makes a legal and ethical distinction between BDSM and such crimes as sexual assault or domestic violence. Advocates of RACK argue that SSC can hamper discussion of risk because no activity is truly safe, RACK may be seen as focusing primarily upon awareness and informed consent, rather than accepted safe practices. Consent is the most important criterion here, the consent and compliance for a sadomasochistic situation can be granted only by people who can judge the potential results
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Gorean
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Gorean subculture is a fandom based on the philosophy espoused in John Normans long-running sword and planet novel series Chronicles of Counter-Earth. It does not have a following but encompasses different groups of varying views. Therefore, although they are estimated to less than 5% of the total female population on Gor. Formal slave training, slave positions and commands, as well as slave attire, as opposed to literalists, the role players, divided into real-life sexual roleplayers and online role-playing gamers are not necessarily committed to Gorean philosophy and ideals. Starting from the 1990s, Gorean subculture has become attractive to a number of teenagers through role playing in chat rooms. Such notoriety caused by this profile and related practices in the virtual Gorean community succeeded in creating disdain among both feminists and the BDSM community, Normans non-fictional sex manual Imaginative Sex presents a series of elaborate fantasy scenarios to be acted out in isolated scenes. He also recommends the use of substitutes, such as the sound of claps as a substitute for whippings. Pat Califia asserts that Norman was critical of the psychological and physical harm that non-stop BDSM slavery, BDSM writer Michael Makai nevertheless asserts that Gorean fiction may be found responsible for shaping or otherwise popularising many of todays established BDSM protocols and tenets. Re, Well heres a question. Gor here and now, kajira Hills account of living a Gorean lifestyle Gracen, Julia. The Last Days of Salernum Second Life Gorean machinima, for further links, see the External links section of the Gor article
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Top (BDSM)
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BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. The term BDSM is first recorded in a Usenet posting from 1991, and is interpreted as a combination of the abbreviations B/D, D/s, BDSM is now used as a catch-all phrase covering a wide range of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. The terms submissive and dominant are often used to distinguish these roles, the terms top and bottom are also used, the top is the instigator of an action while the bottom is the receiver of the action. The abbreviations sub and dom are frequently used instead of submissive, sometimes the female-specific term domme is used to describe a dominant woman, instead of the gender-neutral term dom, both terms are pronounced the same. Individuals who can change between top/dominant and bottom/submissive roles—whether from relationship to relationship or within a given relationship—are known as switches, the precise definition of roles and self-identification is a common subject of debate within the community. BDSM is a term for certain kinds of erotic behavior between consenting adults. There are distinct subcultures under this umbrella term, terminology for roles varies widely among the subcultures. Top and dominant are widely used for partner in the relationship or activity who are, respectively. Bottom and submissive are widely used for partner in the relationship or activity who are, respectively. BDSM actions can take place during a specific period of time agreed to by both parties, referred to as play, a scene, or a session. Participants usually derive pleasure from this, even many of the practices—such as inflicting pain or humiliation or being restrained—would be unpleasant under other circumstances. Explicit sexual activity, such as penetration, may occur within a session. Such explicit sexual interaction is, for reasons, seen only rarely in public play spaces. Whether it is a public playspace—ranging from a party at an established community dungeon to a play zone at a nightclub or social event—the parameters of allowance can vary. Some have a policy of panties/nipple tape for women and some allow full nudity with explicit sexual interaction allowed, the fundamental principles for the exercise of BDSM require that it should be performed with the informed consent of all involved parties. It is mutual consent that makes a legal and ethical distinction between BDSM and such crimes as sexual assault or domestic violence. Advocates of RACK argue that SSC can hamper discussion of risk because no activity is truly safe, RACK may be seen as focusing primarily upon awareness and informed consent, rather than accepted safe practices. Consent is the most important criterion here, the consent and compliance for a sadomasochistic situation can be granted only by people who can judge the potential results
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Bottom (BDSM)
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BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. The term BDSM is first recorded in a Usenet posting from 1991, and is interpreted as a combination of the abbreviations B/D, D/s, BDSM is now used as a catch-all phrase covering a wide range of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. The terms submissive and dominant are often used to distinguish these roles, the terms top and bottom are also used, the top is the instigator of an action while the bottom is the receiver of the action. The abbreviations sub and dom are frequently used instead of submissive, sometimes the female-specific term domme is used to describe a dominant woman, instead of the gender-neutral term dom, both terms are pronounced the same. Individuals who can change between top/dominant and bottom/submissive roles—whether from relationship to relationship or within a given relationship—are known as switches, the precise definition of roles and self-identification is a common subject of debate within the community. BDSM is a term for certain kinds of erotic behavior between consenting adults. There are distinct subcultures under this umbrella term, terminology for roles varies widely among the subcultures. Top and dominant are widely used for partner in the relationship or activity who are, respectively. Bottom and submissive are widely used for partner in the relationship or activity who are, respectively. BDSM actions can take place during a specific period of time agreed to by both parties, referred to as play, a scene, or a session. Participants usually derive pleasure from this, even many of the practices—such as inflicting pain or humiliation or being restrained—would be unpleasant under other circumstances. Explicit sexual activity, such as penetration, may occur within a session. Such explicit sexual interaction is, for reasons, seen only rarely in public play spaces. Whether it is a public playspace—ranging from a party at an established community dungeon to a play zone at a nightclub or social event—the parameters of allowance can vary. Some have a policy of panties/nipple tape for women and some allow full nudity with explicit sexual interaction allowed, the fundamental principles for the exercise of BDSM require that it should be performed with the informed consent of all involved parties. It is mutual consent that makes a legal and ethical distinction between BDSM and such crimes as sexual assault or domestic violence. Advocates of RACK argue that SSC can hamper discussion of risk because no activity is truly safe, RACK may be seen as focusing primarily upon awareness and informed consent, rather than accepted safe practices. Consent is the most important criterion here, the consent and compliance for a sadomasochistic situation can be granted only by people who can judge the potential results
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Uniform fetish
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Uniform fetishism is a sexual fetishism where an individual is sexually aroused by uniforms. Among the most common uniforms in uniform fetish are those of an officer, Prison officer, soldier, schoolgirl, nurse, French maid, waitress, cheerleader. Some people also regard nuns habits or even aprons as uniforms, sometimes uniforms are used according to what activity is being done. For example, someone may wear a uniform to administer an enema or a police uniform to handcuff. Two people may dress as inmates for cell mate-on-cell mate activities in a setting or as a submissive to a third roleplayer. This may add a sense of authenticity to the game play, a stripper dressed as a police officer is a popular fixture at birthday and bachelor parties. The officer begins with a mock arrest, often using handcuffs, a schoolgirl uniform fetish is a sexual fetish in which someone derives sexual pleasure from viewing others dressed in the typical uniform of a schoolgirl, or from themselves dressing in that manner. The schoolgirl image may appeal to women because it allows them to project a more youthful, innocent and these same reasons can explain part of the looks appeal to males as well. It may also have a sexual aspect of nostalgia, recalling memories of a simpler time in ones life. Often the contrast of a fully developed woman in a role is appealing. This can include fantasies or re-enactments of childhood events including corporal punishments such as spanking, school canings, another popular clothing fetish involves cheerleader uniforms. The popularity of the provocative Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders in the 1970s established the cheerleader as an American icon of wholesome sex appeal, as a result, the uniform remains one of the most popular outfits for Halloween, costume parties, exotic dancers, specialty prostitutes, and role-playing couples. A popular costume for sexual roleplay, the French maid uniform, worn by a servant who traditionally defers to her master, carries an implicit dominance. When worn during sexual foreplay or by practitioners of the BDSM lifestyle, in Friends with Money, Jennifer Anistons character, dresses as a French maid for her boyfriend, first vacuuming and using a feather duster, then having sexual intercourse whilst still in costume. On the NBC TV series 30 Rock, Aniston once again wore a skimpy maid costume in an attempt to seduce Alec Baldwins character, in Desperate Housewives, Lynette wears a French maid outfit bought at a lingerie store to spice up her marriage. Uniforms worn by men, fire fighters and police officers present an image of enhanced masculinity and authority that often has a strong sexual appeal to both straight women and gay men. For example, the popular 1970s disco group The Village People dressed up as gay fetish stereotypes, including an officer, military man. Nazi chic, particularly the black SS officers uniform, has widely adopted and fetishized by underground gay and BDSM lifestyle groups
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Medical fetishism
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Medical fetishism refers to a number of sexual fetishes involving objects, practices, environments, and situations of a medical or clinical nature. In sexual roleplay a hospital or medical scene involves the sex partners assuming the roles of doctors, nurses, surgeons, medical fantasy is a genre in pornography, though the fantasy may not necessarily involve pornography or sexual activity. Some people eroticize about intimate examinations as part of a medical fetish, an intimate examination can form part of a scene in medical play where the nurse or doctor inflicts one or more embarrassing and humiliating quasi-medical procedures on the patient. Often frozen or heated objects are introduced to the body to simulate the uncomfortable sensations that can occur during a real examination. Examinations may include an examination and intrusion of the anus, urethra, or vagina, as well as handling and twisting of the penis, testicles, clitoris, and nipples. Quite often, strap on play is also incorporated, as this can heighten the intimacy and this may be a prelude to masturbation or administration of an enema. Before examination, the patient can be placed in restraints and gagged. Temperature taking fetish is a fetish for oral thermometers and rectal thermometers. This may include the sexual attraction to the equipment, processes, sexual arousal from the desire to take anothers temperature or have ones temperature taken is primarily what surrounds the fetish. While rectal temperature taking is more prominent, there is also an interest in oral temperature taking, anesthesia fetishism is a sexual fetish for anesthesia. This may include the sexual attraction to the equipment, processes, substances, sexual arousal from the desire to administer anesthesia, or the sexual desire for oneself to be anesthetized are two forms in which an individual may exist as an arbiter of the fetish. Older-style anesthesia masks of black rubber, still in use today, are one of the more common elements fetishized. Anesthesia fetish is considered edgeplay when realised outside the boundaries of fantasy, fantasies are elaborated by the viewing of images and reading of stories of anesthetic inductions. Some anesthesia fetishists who seek to be anesthetized may feign or induce medical conditions in an attempt to obtain general anesthesia from medical personnel and this is considered safer than playing with anesthetic agents outside of a medical setting, but may nevertheless be an abuse of all concerned. The Internet has enabled people with relatively rare paraphilia to discuss the subject
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Handyman
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A handyman, also known as a handyperson or handyworker, is a person skilled at a wide range of repairs, typically around the home. These tasks include trade skills, repair work, maintenance work, are both interior and exterior, and are described as side work, odd jobs or fix-up tasks. Specifically, these jobs could be light plumbing jobs such as fixing a leaky toilet or light electric jobs such as changing a light fixture, the term handyman increasingly describes a paid worker, but it also includes non-paid homeowners or do-it-yourselfers. Many people can do common household repairs, there are resources on the Internet, as well as do-it-yourself guide books, with instructions about how to complete a wide range of projects. Sometimes the fix-it skill is seen as genetic, and people lacking such skills are said to lack the handy-man gene, a primary rule for all do-it-yourself repair work is focus entirely on one thing at a time. For example, focus on getting a nail, then focus on hammering the nail, in this manner, injuries and mistakes are avoided. Generally the job of paid handyman is low status, a semi-skilled labor job and its a less prestigious occupation than a specialist such as a plumber, electrician, or carpenter. At the same time, unpaid homeowners skilled at repairs are valued for saving money, an estimate was that in 2003, the market for home-maintenance and repair spending was up 14% from 2001 to 2003. Another estimate was that the market in the United States was $126 billion and was increasing by about 4% annually, American homes are aging, one estimate was that in 2007, more than half of all homes are older than 25 years. Many towns have handymen who work part-time, for friends or family or neighbors, sometimes they advertise in newspapers or online. They vary in quality, professionalism, skill level, and price, contractors often criticize the work of previous contractors, and this practice is not limited to handymen, but to all trades. Handymen have advertised their services through flyers and mailings, in addition, free websites such as Craigslist and SkillSlate help customers and handymen find each other. In 2009, there were national handyman service firms which handle such tasks as public relations, marketing, advertising, and signage. A franchise contract typically gives a franchise owner the right to take service calls within a given geographical area. The websites of these firms put possible customers in touch with local owners, typically these firms charge around $100/hour, although fees vary by locality and time of year. In many parts of the world, there are professional handyman firms that do small home or commercial projects which claim possible advantages such as having workers who are insured and licensed. Their branch offices schedule service appointments for full-time and part-time handymen to visit and make repairs, one Lehman Brothers executive, after being let go from the Wall Street firm, bought a Union, New Jersey franchise from a national handyman firm. A franchise was approximately $110,000 with a fee of $14,900
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Tradesman
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In Victorian England, The terms skilled worker, craftsman, artisan, and tradesman were used in senses that overlap. All describe people with specialized training in the skills needed for a kind of work. Some of them produced goods that they sold from their own premises, still others were factory hands who had become experts in some complex part of the process and could command high wages and steady employment. Skilled workers in the trades were also referred to by one or another of these terms. One study of Caversham, New Zealand at the turn of the notes that a skilled trade was considered a trade that required an apprenticeship to entry. Skilled tradesmen worked either in traditional handicraft workshops or newer factories that emerged during the Industrial Revolution, tradesmen are contrasted with unskilled workers, agricultural workers, and professionals. Both types of work, however, are considered blue-collar, there is no definitive list of modern skilled trades, as definitions vary, with some lists being broader than others. Despite this, polling for the found that apprenticeships have a lower perceived value than bachelors degrees. Grey-collar worker Guild Journeyman List of construction trades Master craftsman Skilled worker Trade union Technician Vocational education Torpey, high wages after high school - without a bachelors degree
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Master/slave (BDSM)
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In BDSM, Master/slave or M/s is a relationship in which one individual serves another in an authority-exchange structured relationship. Unlike Dominant/submissive structures found in BDSM in which love is often the core value, the participants may be of any gender or sexual orientation. The relationship uses the term slave because of the association of the term with ownership rights of a master to their slaves body, as property or chattel. The Master/slave relationship is entered into on a basis, without the legal force of historical or modern non-consensual slavery. Outside the BDSM community, the relationship of Master/slave is sometimes regarded as a form of sexual slavery. In BDSM, a slave is a type of submissive. The sexual aspect could be conventional, and not necessarily BDSM, a slave could also be a masochist or bottom, but this is not always the case. Some participants regard the relationship as sexual roleplay, while others enter into the relationship on the basis of a committed, long-term. Various forms of symbolism are sometimes used to affirm the owner/slave relationship and these include wearing the owners collar, being registered in a slave register, adopting a name chosen by the owner, or engaging in a public declaration or ritualized ceremony of some type. Some people draw up a contract that defines the relationship in explicit detail. These contracts may also deal with domestic arrangements and interpersonal relationship matters, the slave then wears a collar to publicly declare the slaves subjugation and the Masters ownership. Such a collar may be a piece of neckwear, or may be a bracelet or other piece of jewelery that symbolizes slave status. Slave training is a BDSM activity usually involving a power exchange between two people taking on the roles of a Master or Mistress and a slave. Slave training can be a learning process both for the slave and for the Master or Mistress, training is usually defined in clear steps or lesson plans before it begins. The Master or Mistress teaches the slave how to speak, act, the slave, in return, derives pleasure from being able to please and serve the Master or Mistress. The slave may also be rewarded tangibly, such as with food, some Masters adopt a holistic approach to the maintenance and long-term development of their slave by using such models as Maslows hierarchy of needs. Depending on the relationship, one or more lesson plans may also involve some forms of aversion training and this could include use of spanking, physical restraints, or clamping to encourage compliance, and to provide the slave with a specific reason to comply. Dominance & submission Consent Gorean Roleplaying Sadism and masochism Collar Christina Abernathy, Erotic Slavehood, A Miss Abernathy Omnibus
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Human animal roleplay
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Animal roleplay is a form of roleplay where at least one participant plays the part of a non-human animal. As with most forms of roleplay, its uses include play, Animal roleplay may also be found in BDSM contexts, where an individual may take part in a dominant/submissive relationship by being treated as an animal. The activity is referred to as petplay. However, not all types of animal roleplay within BDSM are petplay and not all petplay in BDSM involves roleplaying as an animal, some can be referred to as primal play and furry play. The origins of animal roleplay and petplay are probably various and diverse, however, its origins are certainly influenced by costuming, fiction, myth and legend, roleplay and psychodrama in their various aspects. Some of the earliest published images of play are to be found in the work of John Willie. Examples of the former include many of the American Indian tribes, examples of the latter are evidenced by cave paintings. In 1911, Julia Tuell photographed the last Animal Dance performed by the Northern Cheyenne of Montana and it is also sometimes used in education, especially physical education, as a way to encourage people to exercise the body in unusual ways, by mimicking various animals. In manga and anime, a common character type is the catgirl. A standard catgirl resembles a teenage girl with cat ears, a tail, tiny fangs. Examples include Cat Girl Nuku Nuku, Pink from Dragon Pink, real-life costume play, or cosplay, of anime catgirls could be considered a form of pet play. That catgirls are humanoids with lesser attributes of felines means that the costume is a simple one. Though kittenlike timidity and submissiveness are prominent elements of catgirl charm, all involve animal qualities taken on by a human. Some would even count the enactment or spiritual belief in therianthropy as falling under human animal roleplay or transformation play as well. Peter Shaffers 1973 play Equus tells the story of a man who has a pathological religious fascination with horses. Andrew Lloyd Webbers 1981 musical Cats traces a tribe of urban cats, like much of erotic play and roleplay, animal roleplay in an erotic or relational context is entirely defined by the people involved and by their mood and interests at the time of play. To the greater extremes of dressing up as a pony in modified horse tack, masks, prosthetics, public participation in human animal roleplay is varied. A couple could inconspicuously role-play a silly but loving pet play scene in public, in the case of some BDSM fetishists, one partner may wear a dog collar with a leash attached
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Cheerleader
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Cheerleading ranges from chanting, to intense physical activity for sports team motivation, audience entertainment, or competition based upon organized routines. Competitive routines typically range anywhere from one to three minutes, and contain components of tumbling, dance, jumps, cheers, and stunting, Cheerleading originated in the United States, and remains predominantly in America, with an estimated 1.5 million participants in all-star cheerleading. The global presentation of cheerleading was led by the 1997 broadcast of ESPNs International cheerleading competition, Cheerleading began during the late 18th century with the rebellion of male students. After the American Revolutionary War, students experienced harsh treatment from teachers, in response to facultys abuse, college students violently acted out. The undergraduates began to riot, burn down buildings located on their college campuses, as a more subtle way to gain independence, however, students invented and organized their own extracurricular activities outside their professors control. This brought about American sports, beginning first with collegiate teams, in the 1860s, students from Great Britain began to cheer and chant in unison for their favorite athletes at sporting events. Soon, that gesture of support crossed overseas to America, on November 6,1869, the United States witnessed its first intercollegiate football game. It took place between Princeton and Rutgers University, and marked the day the original Sis Boom Rah. cheer was shouted out by student fans, organized cheerleading started as an all-male activity. As early as 1877, Princeton University had a Princeton Cheer, documented in the February 22,1877, March 12,1880 and this cheer was yelled from the stands by students attending games, as well as by the athletes themselves. Remains in use with modifications today, where it is now referred to as the Locomotive. Princeton class of 1882 graduate Thomas Peebles moved to Minnesota in 1884 and he transplanted the idea of organized crowds cheering at football games to the University of Minnesota. These students would cheer for the team also at football practices and it was not until 1898 that University of Minnesota student Johnny Campbell directed a crowd in cheering Rah, Rah, Rah. Making Campbell the very first cheerleader, November 2,1898 is the official birth date of organized cheerleading. Soon after, the University of Minnesota organized a yell leader squad of six male students, in 1903, the first cheerleading fraternity, Gamma Sigma, was founded. In 1923, at the University of Minnesota, women were permitted to participate in cheerleading, however, it took time for other schools to follow. In the late 1920s, many school manuals and newspapers that were published still referred to cheerleaders as chap, fellow, women cheerleaders were overlooked until the 1940s. In the 1940s, collegiate men were drafted for World War II, as noted by Kieran Scott in Ultimate Cheerleading, Girls really took over for the first time. During the 1950s, cheerleading in America also increased in popularity, by the 1960s, some began to consider cheerleading a feminine extracurricular for boys, and by the 1970s, girls primarily cheered at public school games
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French maid
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French maid is a strongly modified style of servants dress that evolved from typical housemaids black and white afternoon uniforms of 19th century France. The designs of the French maid dress can range widely from a look to revealing. It is often used in cosplay, sexual roleplaying, and fetishism, depending on design details, some forms can be classified as lingerie. Though not strict to historically accurate uniforms, the French maid outfit has a recognizable pattern. The typical French maid costume includes, A black with white trim one-piece dress with a skirt at or above knee length. White half-apron, usually with ruffle or lace A ruffled or lace headpiece Long stockings or tights and these can be white or black and vary from design to design. High Heels Feather-duster White lace garter Optional accessories depend on design and context, Choker necklace The outfits are worn to costume parties. Clothing fetish Cosplay restaurant French maid fetishism Soubrette
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Gloria Brame
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Gloria Brame is an American board certified sexologist, writer and sex therapist based in Athens, Georgia. She is a member of the American College of Sexologists, and her sex therapy practice specializes in consensual BDSM, sexual fetishism and sexual dysfunction. She is also an author and named as one of 2015s 10 Best Sex. Brame wrote several books including, Different Loving, the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission Come Hither, the latter book was selected as the official guide to kinky sex by the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. Another book titled Sex for Grown-Ups is set to publish on June 2013, Brame testified against then-US Attorney General in Nitke vs Ashcroft, a major case challenging the Communications Decency Act before the Southern District of New York. Brames most recent publication is The Truth About Sex, A Sex Primer for the 21st Century Volume I, Sex, in 2012 Brame joined the board of directors of the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance and co-hosted a web radio talk show on Spreaker. Brame has been cited as a sex expert in a number of media articles. She has been listed as one of the 15 Best Sexperts of 2015 by DatingAdvice. com, Brame, Gloria G. Brame, William D. Jacobs, Jon. Different Loving, An Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance, Brame, Gloria G. Domina, The Sextopians. Come Hither, A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex, the Truth About Sex, A Sex Primer for the 21st Century. Volume I, Sex and the Self, the Truth about Sex, a Sex Primer for the 21st Century. Brame, Gloria G. Naked Memory, Confessions of a Sexual Revolutionary, a Fetish for Men, A Memoir. Brame, Gloria G. Marquis de Sade, Donatien Alphonse François, the International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality. Malden, Oxford, John Wiley and Sons, Ltd, Brame, Gloria G. Brame, William D. Different Loving Too, Real People, Real Lives, Real BDSM
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International Standard Book Number
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The International Standard Book Number is a unique numeric commercial book identifier. An ISBN is assigned to each edition and variation of a book, for example, an e-book, a paperback and a hardcover edition of the same book would each have a different ISBN. The ISBN is 13 digits long if assigned on or after 1 January 2007, the method of assigning an ISBN is nation-based and varies from country to country, often depending on how large the publishing industry is within a country. The initial ISBN configuration of recognition was generated in 1967 based upon the 9-digit Standard Book Numbering created in 1966, the 10-digit ISBN format was developed by the International Organization for Standardization and was published in 1970 as international standard ISO2108. Occasionally, a book may appear without a printed ISBN if it is printed privately or the author does not follow the usual ISBN procedure, however, this can be rectified later. Another identifier, the International Standard Serial Number, identifies periodical publications such as magazines, the ISBN configuration of recognition was generated in 1967 in the United Kingdom by David Whitaker and in 1968 in the US by Emery Koltay. The 10-digit ISBN format was developed by the International Organization for Standardization and was published in 1970 as international standard ISO2108, the United Kingdom continued to use the 9-digit SBN code until 1974. The ISO on-line facility only refers back to 1978, an SBN may be converted to an ISBN by prefixing the digit 0. For example, the edition of Mr. J. G. Reeder Returns, published by Hodder in 1965, has SBN340013818 -340 indicating the publisher,01381 their serial number. This can be converted to ISBN 0-340-01381-8, the check digit does not need to be re-calculated, since 1 January 2007, ISBNs have contained 13 digits, a format that is compatible with Bookland European Article Number EAN-13s. An ISBN is assigned to each edition and variation of a book, for example, an ebook, a paperback, and a hardcover edition of the same book would each have a different ISBN. The ISBN is 13 digits long if assigned on or after 1 January 2007, a 13-digit ISBN can be separated into its parts, and when this is done it is customary to separate the parts with hyphens or spaces. Separating the parts of a 10-digit ISBN is also done with either hyphens or spaces, figuring out how to correctly separate a given ISBN number is complicated, because most of the parts do not use a fixed number of digits. ISBN issuance is country-specific, in that ISBNs are issued by the ISBN registration agency that is responsible for country or territory regardless of the publication language. Some ISBN registration agencies are based in national libraries or within ministries of culture, in other cases, the ISBN registration service is provided by organisations such as bibliographic data providers that are not government funded. In Canada, ISBNs are issued at no cost with the purpose of encouraging Canadian culture. In the United Kingdom, United States, and some countries, where the service is provided by non-government-funded organisations. Australia, ISBNs are issued by the library services agency Thorpe-Bowker
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Discipline (BDSM)
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BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. The term BDSM is first recorded in a Usenet posting from 1991, and is interpreted as a combination of the abbreviations B/D, D/s, BDSM is now used as a catch-all phrase covering a wide range of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. The terms submissive and dominant are often used to distinguish these roles, the terms top and bottom are also used, the top is the instigator of an action while the bottom is the receiver of the action. The abbreviations sub and dom are frequently used instead of submissive, sometimes the female-specific term domme is used to describe a dominant woman, instead of the gender-neutral term dom, both terms are pronounced the same. Individuals who can change between top/dominant and bottom/submissive roles—whether from relationship to relationship or within a given relationship—are known as switches, the precise definition of roles and self-identification is a common subject of debate within the community. BDSM is a term for certain kinds of erotic behavior between consenting adults. There are distinct subcultures under this umbrella term, terminology for roles varies widely among the subcultures. Top and dominant are widely used for partner in the relationship or activity who are, respectively. Bottom and submissive are widely used for partner in the relationship or activity who are, respectively. BDSM actions can take place during a specific period of time agreed to by both parties, referred to as play, a scene, or a session. Participants usually derive pleasure from this, even many of the practices—such as inflicting pain or humiliation or being restrained—would be unpleasant under other circumstances. Explicit sexual activity, such as penetration, may occur within a session. Such explicit sexual interaction is, for reasons, seen only rarely in public play spaces. Whether it is a public playspace—ranging from a party at an established community dungeon to a play zone at a nightclub or social event—the parameters of allowance can vary. Some have a policy of panties/nipple tape for women and some allow full nudity with explicit sexual interaction allowed, the fundamental principles for the exercise of BDSM require that it should be performed with the informed consent of all involved parties. It is mutual consent that makes a legal and ethical distinction between BDSM and such crimes as sexual assault or domestic violence. Advocates of RACK argue that SSC can hamper discussion of risk because no activity is truly safe, RACK may be seen as focusing primarily upon awareness and informed consent, rather than accepted safe practices. Consent is the most important criterion here, the consent and compliance for a sadomasochistic situation can be granted only by people who can judge the potential results
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Animal roleplay
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Animal roleplay is a form of roleplay where at least one participant plays the part of a non-human animal. As with most forms of roleplay, its uses include play, Animal roleplay may also be found in BDSM contexts, where an individual may take part in a dominant/submissive relationship by being treated as an animal. The activity is referred to as petplay. However, not all types of animal roleplay within BDSM are petplay and not all petplay in BDSM involves roleplaying as an animal, some can be referred to as primal play and furry play. The origins of animal roleplay and petplay are probably various and diverse, however, its origins are certainly influenced by costuming, fiction, myth and legend, roleplay and psychodrama in their various aspects. Some of the earliest published images of play are to be found in the work of John Willie. Examples of the former include many of the American Indian tribes, examples of the latter are evidenced by cave paintings. In 1911, Julia Tuell photographed the last Animal Dance performed by the Northern Cheyenne of Montana and it is also sometimes used in education, especially physical education, as a way to encourage people to exercise the body in unusual ways, by mimicking various animals. In manga and anime, a common character type is the catgirl. A standard catgirl resembles a teenage girl with cat ears, a tail, tiny fangs. Examples include Cat Girl Nuku Nuku, Pink from Dragon Pink, real-life costume play, or cosplay, of anime catgirls could be considered a form of pet play. That catgirls are humanoids with lesser attributes of felines means that the costume is a simple one. Though kittenlike timidity and submissiveness are prominent elements of catgirl charm, all involve animal qualities taken on by a human. Some would even count the enactment or spiritual belief in therianthropy as falling under human animal roleplay or transformation play as well. Peter Shaffers 1973 play Equus tells the story of a man who has a pathological religious fascination with horses. Andrew Lloyd Webbers 1981 musical Cats traces a tribe of urban cats, like much of erotic play and roleplay, animal roleplay in an erotic or relational context is entirely defined by the people involved and by their mood and interests at the time of play. To the greater extremes of dressing up as a pony in modified horse tack, masks, prosthetics, public participation in human animal roleplay is varied. A couple could inconspicuously role-play a silly but loving pet play scene in public, in the case of some BDSM fetishists, one partner may wear a dog collar with a leash attached
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Bondage hood
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A bondage hood is a fetishistic hood. It may be made from rubber, latex, PVC, spandex, full-faced hoods are typically used for the practice of head bondage, and to restrain and objectify the wearer through depersonalization, disorientation and/or sensory deprivation. The use of bondage hoods can be hazardous if breathing is impeded, Bondage hoods are frequently referenced in popular culture, most notably in the film Pulp Fiction. Gas mask fetishism Total enclosure fetishism Gimp suit Hooding Media related to Bondage hoods at Wikimedia Commons
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Bondage suit
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A bondage suit, also commonly called a gimp suit, is a garment designed to cover the body completely, fitting it closely, and often including anchor points for bondage. It often has a hood, if it does not. The suit may be made any material, leather, PVC, rubber, spandex. Leather, not being stretchy, cannot fit as tightly as the others, a bondage suit is used in BDSM to objectify the wearer, or gimp, and reduce him or her to the status of a sexual toy, rather than a sexual partner. Unless there are suitably placed zippers, the breasts and genitals are not directly accessible while the suit is worn, following usage of the term in Quentin Tarantinos movie Pulp Fiction, such suits are sometimes called a gimp suit
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Breast bondage
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Breast bondage is a bondage technique which involves the tying of rope around a womans breasts in a visually intricate and decorative pattern. Breast bondage most commonly uses rope, but webbing, straps or a harness may also be used, a karada is a rope dress or a rope body harness used in Japanese bondage and other BDSM activities. Breast bondage often focuses on the decorative, aesthetic and erotic aspects of the result, however, breast bondage can be combined with other techniques which restrict the subjects mobility and can provide securing points for other bondage plays, such as crotch rope and tit torture. Breast bondage can be applied over clothing or directly to the skin, 1/4 inch rope, ribbon, or leather straps can be used. The basic breast bondage technique involves tying ropes around the base of the breasts, usually, the same rope is used for both breasts so that the rope harness is automatically held together at the front. The rope may also be fixed behind the back, to make a sort of bra. Another technique is to put a rope around the torso just above the breasts and this can be done instead of, or as well as, the other method. A rope can also be passed over the shoulders and between the breasts, drawing the rope above and below the breasts together, then back over the shoulders to the knots at the back. The primary rope can be used to place cinches between the arms and the body, shinju is a euphemism to refer to the binding of female breasts. It has been claimed that shinju is an authentic Japanese term for a bikini harness. However, no such tie called a shinju is found in historic or present kinbaku, the basic or foundational kinbaku form of binding the arms and breasts is known as the Ushiro Takatekote, which is to bind the arms behind the back in a box arm position. Sometimes, breast bondage is combined with other bondage techniques, for example, the womans arms can be tied behind her back, in an elbow or box tie or in a reverse prayer position. When combined with breast bondage, bound arms force the womans chest, when fully bound, other BDSM tools such as nipple clamps can be used. Breast bondage can play a part in suspension bondage. If the subject is being suspended, particularly in a position such as a suspended hogtie. Bondage harness Bondage rigger BDSM Crotch rope Breast fetishism Introduction to Breast Bondage
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Collar (BDSM)
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In a BDSM context, a collar is a device of any material worn by a person around the neck to indicate their submissive or slave status in a BDSM relationship. A person wearing a collar to symbolize their relationship with another is said to be collared, Collars may be used in role-playing games involving erotic humiliation because they have connotations of control and pet-like status, especially when worn with a leash. The most common material for a collar is leather, and many people use actual dog collars with a buckle, other materials include rubber, PVC, and metal. Many collars are constructed with different materials, and may also be decorated in various ways. Collars often feature buckles, straps and hooks, padlocks and other attachments, a wolf collar is a collar fitted with long spikes, which are considered decorative. Such collars were used to protect dogs from wolves. However, the spikes are considered to be dangerous, and therefore such collars are used with care, some wolf collars have the spikes coated in plastic for added protection. A neck corset is a type of collar that incorporates stays. It is a device designed for the neck instead of the waist. It is often combined with a corset in order to achieve better posture. Some neck corsets and posture collars are designed to cover the mouth. These devices, often called mouth corsets, are used in BDSM because they can be used as a gag. Collars have varying degrees of significance for people in the BDSM community, a person wearing a collar may wish by doing so to make it known that he or she is submissive. Wearing a collar may similarly be a signal to others that the submissive is owned by or is in a relationship with a dominant, and it may also be a potently tangible symbol of the relationship itself or of the ownership the submissive is held in. A lockable collar may further symbolize a transfer of power from the submissive to the dominant holding the key, some submissives do not wear their collars all the time. They are becoming common as a fashion accessory, but not sufficiently so that they would go unnoticed. Many choose to wear a collar only when in private with their partners, Collars can be made from lighter materials such as cotton, or heavier materials such as leather. Steel collars are worn by some and lockable necklaces are also regarded as a form of collar
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Crotch rope
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A crotch rope is a bondage technique which involves the tying of rope around a womans waist which is then passed between the labia to apply painful or pleasurable pressure to the female genitals. Crotch rope most commonly uses rope, but webbing, straps or a harness may also be used, a crotch rope may be tied over clothing or directly onto the skin, and can be worn under clothing or in full view. While crotch ropes are most commonly intended for women, specific variations exist for males, a crotch rope can also be used as an unsophisticated type of chastity belt. Typically, the pass between the labia majora or deeper through the cleft of the vulva. Knots can be tied in the rope to apply pressure to the anus or clitoris. Its usually fixed in place by tying it to a rope around the waist just above the hips or by tying the two ends to another fixture and it is also used in BDSM activities especially on female submissives most commonly as a part of tease and denial. Two ropes passing between the groins on either side of the labia may be used instead of the rope or in addition to it. In the latter case the ropes will press the labia against the rope for additional pain/discomfort. For abrasion play if the rope is not tied to the waist it can be moved forward and backward between the labia or the subject can be made to walk across it. This allows the rope bound person some ability to pressure on the genitals at the cost of reduced freedom of movement. Sometimes, a rope is combined with other bondage techniques. Rope bondage Breast bondage Bondage rigger Crotch rope for men version I Instructions how to tie a crotch rope, retrieved on 11 November,2009 Onna Nawa - Naked Women in Japanese Bondage
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Forced orgasm
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In BDSM or other sexual roleplay, the submissive partner can be put in physical restraints, to enable the active partner to control the rate and duration of stimulation. The incidence of those who experience unsolicited sexual contact and experience orgasm is very low, involuntary orgasms can happen regardless of gender. Medical research shows that the reflex is part of the spinal cord. A related medical sexual problem is called Persistent genital arousal disorder
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Head bondage
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Head bondage, in BDSM play, includes all techniques used to apply control to the head of the subject. It may refer to one of techniques, It may refer to encasing the head in a bondage hood. A head harness may include a blindfold and/or gag, the encasement may include or be supplemented by a wide, stiff posture collar round the neck to restrict movement of the head. It may refer to the use of rope or other material to achieve control of the head, in particular, it may refer to pulling the head backwards by hair bondage or a rope attached to the back or top of a hood or head harness. A head harness is a made of interconnected straps designed to encircle the human head. The straps are secured by buckles that fasten at the back of the head. Head harnesses may also function as a gag by themselves, by restricting the ability to open the mouth, many head harnesses are designed with straps that pass in front of the wearers eyes, restricting their vision, and further increasing the sense of objectification and erotic subjugation. Jay Wisemans Erotic Bondage Handbook, Jay Wiseman, Greenery Press,2000, ISBN 1-890159-13-1, subchapter Hoods, pages 217-220
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Hogtie bondage
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In bondage, the hogtie is a position in which a submissives wrists and ankles are fastened together behind their back using physical restraints such as rope or cuffs. Hogtie bondage requires the tying of all four limbs together behind a persons back and it typically involves connecting a persons wrists and ankles behind the back whilst lying face down using some form of physical restraints. It may instead refer to the binding of arms and legs behind a person in some BDSM contexts, a variation of the hogtie involves tying bound wrists to frogtied legs, providing the dominant easier access to the submissives crotch for sexual play. A pretzel hogtie is a stringent variant that has the wrists, elbows and ankles all tied together behind the back, the hogtie position places pressure on the abdomen of the tied person, which may created difficulty in breathing known as postural asphyxia. Care should be taken to ensure the person being bound can breathe easily throughout all stages of play and this is particularly important if gags, collars or rope is used to create a more stringent tie. This risk is in addition to the risks of physical restraint. Bondage List of bondage positions Frog tie Shrimp tie
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Interrogation scene
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An interrogation scene is a form of BDSM roleplay in which the participants act out the parts of torturer and victim. As in real life torture chambers throughout the world over, the torturer uses threats, humiliation, the game is over when the victim has broken and divulged the secret. The length and severity of the scene will vary according to the temperament of the players, dedicated players attempt to replicate the atmosphere of a real torture session and, as in real life, the victim can expect to be stripped naked, tied up, mocked and abused. Popular methods of play in interrogation scenes include tickle torture, where the victim will be tied up and tickled continuously without relief until the victim submits and reveals the information. One form of torture is orgasm control or erotic sexual denial, the torturer may then reduce the stimulation and keep the victim in a state of extended arousal for a long period of time. By varying the pace of the stimulation, the victim may be forced to undergo cycles of up, when satisfied with the experience, the victim may divulge the secret in order to be brought to the desired orgasm by the torturer. The interrogation may be continued past the orgasm, particularly if the victim orgasms without divulging the secret, generally, the glans becomes very sensitive after orgasm, and continued stimulation may manifest more as an extreme tickling sensation. This can become uncomfortable for the victim, or perhaps even painful. In at least one case, interrogation fantasies have been raised as a defense to a civil lawsuit
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Japanese bondage
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Kinbaku means tight binding, while Kinbaku-bi literally means the beauty of tight binding. Kinbaku is a Japanese style of bondage or BDSM which involves tying a person up using simple yet visually intricate patterns, in Japanese, this natural-fibre rope is known as asanawa, the Japanese vocabulary does not make a distinction between hemp and jute. The allusion is to the use of rope for restraining prisoners, as a symbol of power. The word shibari came into use in the West at some point in the 1990s to describe the bondage art Kinbaku. Shibari is a Japanese word that literally means Decoratively Tie, there is much discussion about the distinction between shibari and kinbaku, and whether one term is more appropriate than another. A traditional view is that the term shibari is a wrong Western Japonism, the word denotes tying in Japanese, but in a generic way, and traditionally not in the context of bondage. The names for many particular ties include shibari, but it is not traditional to call the activity that way. Instead, Kinbaku is the term for artistic or erotic tying within traditional Japanese rope bondage circles and this view seems to be squarely at odds with the way the word is actually used in books, periodicals, and discussions of rope bondage among Japanese. An even more traditional view is that shibari is a used for erotic bondage in Japan that is practically interchangeable with the term kinbaku. One of Nurkei Chimuos how-to video series from the 1980s, is titled Introduction to Shibari, most Japanese kinbakushi do not object to the term shibari, as its common vernacular in the global community. Another explanation can be found in the roots of the two words, which share a core kanji. In Japan the most often used type of rope is a loose laid, in recent history a range of rope types have been used for Kinbaku in Japan though Nawashi rarely use synthetic fibre rope and most often use jute. The aesthetics of the bound persons position is important, in particular, Japanese bondage is distinguished by its use of specific katas, sometimes, asymmetric and often intentionally uncomfortable positions are employed. In particular, Japanese bondage is very much about the way the rope is applied, in this way the rope becomes an extension of the nawashis hands and is used to communicate. Traditional Japanese bondage techniques use natural fiber rope exclusively, though contemporary Japanese Masters have been working with a range of rope materials. The natural fibers easily lock to each other which means the bondage can be together by the friction of twists. Traditionally, multiple 6-8 meter lengths are used, Shibari has a strong presence in the works of some renowned contemporary artists, mainly photographers, like Nobuyoshi Araki in Japan, Jim Duvall in the United States and Hikari Kesho in Europe. In 2014, Romanian singer-songwriter NAVI released a Shibari-themed music video, the highly controversial video, directed by Marian Nica, was banned by Romanian television for its explicit erotic content
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Mummification (BDSM)
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Bondage is the practice of consentually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation. Rope, cuffs, bondage tape, self-adhering bandage, or other restraints may be used for this purpose, Bondage itself does not necessarily imply sadomasochism. Bondage may be used as an end into itself, as in the case of rope bondage and it may also be used as a part of sex or in conjunction with other BDSM activities. The letter B in the acronym BDSM comes from the word bondage, Sexuality and erotica are an important aspect in bondage, but are often not the end in itself. Aesthetics also plays an important role in bondage, a common reason for the active partner to tie up their partner is so both may gain pleasure from the restrained partners submission and the feeling of the temporary transfer of control and power. For sadomasochistic people, bondage is used as a means to an end. However, bondage can also be used for its own sake, many couples incorporate bondage into their sex lives, often sporadically but sometimes more regularly, and find sexual bondage to be relationship-affirming. This sometimes takes the form of a sex game or sexual fantasy enactment, bedroom bondage games are commonly used as a form of foreplay. They require and imply a level of trust and a surrender of control by the restrained to the active partner, the restrained partner surrenders control to the other partner. This surrender of control happens voluntarily and under mutual understanding and consent, the main feature of sexual bondage is that it renders the restrained person vulnerable to a variety of sex acts. The restrained partner is dependent for their sexual satisfaction on the actions of their partner, there are many reasons why people allow themselves to be bound. Bondage can be simple to apply, enabling improvisation using household items. Bedroom bondage is usually mild bondage, with one partner voluntarily being put into restraints by being tied up or handcuffed, blindfolds are a common part of bedroom play. The restrained partner is then typically sexually stimulated by masturbation, fingering, oral sex, Bondage can also be used for purposes other than sexual foreplay. For example, it may be used in erotic tickling or for sexual teasing, either way, the partners are usually playing out bondage games to act out their sexual fantasies. In 1995, psychologists Kurt Ernulf and Sune Innala from Sweden published an analysis based on answers from members of the bondage-oriented Usenet group alt. sex. bondage, most of the answers were from men. In 71% of the answers the active role in bondage was played by men, in 11% by heterosexual women. 29% of the men, 89% of the heterosexual women
